Love and sex

Even though men face it again and again in their relationships, they are still surprised and dismayed when their partners want physical affection from them much more than sex. Here are a few ways to understand your wife’s desires better and to love her even when you are not having actual sex.

Discovering that a partner suffers from a sexually transmitted disease can create significant stress in a relationship. You may not only be affected emotionally by the discovery but physically too as in the event of contracting the infection. Here are a few ways to know if your partner has an STD before you expose yourself to the infection.

Pregnancy is an amazing experience for most women but it is also a time when the expectant mother is assailed with innumerable doubts about the well-being of her unborn child. One of the most common of these questions is whether or not it is safe for her to have intercourse during pregnancy. While there are no clear answers to this one, a woman should be aware of various factors so as to be able to make the right decision.

Listen to your body

Virginity testing is a hugely sensitive subject since it is not only related to sexual behavior of a person but is intrinsically associated with far more complex questions of gender, sexual politics, history, religion and culture. While folklore has several, and many of them bizarre, theories about how a girl should behave if she is still a virgin, modern proofs of virginity for girls centers around an intact hymen and gynecological examination. Nevertheless there's no way to know for sure if a girl is a virgin.

Physical intimacy is an essential part of any successful marriage. While there are no rules on how often you should be making love to your husband, if such episodes have come to a total standstill, perhaps you need to take stock of the situation. Here are a few things you should consider if your husband doesn’t want to have sex with you at all.

Sadomasochism (or S&M) essentially consists of feeling pleasure in the face of pain. On the surface this may seem like a sexual practice that's only for the most experimental or kinky among us but sadomasochism, at least in mild forms, has been a part of almost everyone's sex life at one point or another. When people are sexually aroused, their tolerance for pain has a natural way of increasing. Spanking, biting, and nail scratching seem to find their way into even the most conservative bedrooms.

Certain substances have over the course of human history acquired a reputation of enhancing sexual experience. While a few of them are thought to act directly to stimulate sexual desire, most aphrodisiacs work by contributing to the healthy functioning of the major systems of the body and supplying vital nutrients, all of which are crucial to healthy sex life. Primrose oil, also known as evening primrose oil, is one such substance which has beneficial effects on major organs of the body and indirectly works to promote a healthy sexual experience.

Since the beginning of civilization, mankind has experimented with various types of herbs to cure sexual dysfunction or simply to put the zing back into their sex lives. Herbs with purported aphrodisiacal properties generally work by curing the body of various disorders which may be interfering with sexual pleasure or by supplying the body with nutrients essential for healthy sex. Saw palmetto is one such herb which has long been reputed to work wonders for the human libido.

About saw palmetto

Sex and the ultimate quest for pleasure, have always preoccupied both men and women. While propaganda always highlights the male preoccupation with sexual fulfillment, women are also eager to experiment with aphrodisiacs. Studies reveal that a significant proportion of women never achieve orgasm and sexual fulfillment. Natural aphrodisiacs are substances occurring in nature like plants, fruits, nuts and vegetables that can be used to stimulate and enhance desire. They may also improve the ability to have sex.

Women love to use their sexuality. It is one of their most powerful weapons to reduce normal, intelligent men to slobbering, salivating idiots. Sometimes it is a woman’s way of exacting payment for whatever grouse they have against the male species in general.

At other times, women may not even have any such devious motives. They simply enjoy flaunting their sexuality and reveling in the effect they have on men. It is a way of reinforcing their attractiveness to themselves.


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