Sex Positions for Fat People - Making Love when you're Obese

Some sex positions can be tricky as it is, but when you have body size issues to contend with; things can get downright uncomfortable if not dangerous! But, if you are one of the millions of people who are what I like to call ‘biggy-sized’ or ‘big-a-licious’; there are still ways that you can enjoy sex to the max. There are all kinds of sex positions for fat people that are worth trying, so read on for what you need to rock your super sized world.

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The first and likely most important thing to keep in mind when having sex with a bigger partner or if you yourself are big is how important it is to keep an open mind. We all wish that we could embark on the perfect sexual adventure every time where things just mesh and fall perfectly into place (pun fully intended), but the reality is that some things need a little work in order to run smoothly. This is especially the same when it comes to sex. Making love is something that you want to enjoy as much as physically possible and the best way to do that is to check your hang ups at the door. You’re fat—so what?! Even bad sex feels good at the very least, so why stress about it? Get in there with the attitude that you’re there to feel good and make your partner feel good and if this means having to try several positions or pile a few pillows under your parts, then so be it! Have a go at some of these and you’ll be loving sex in no time!

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The Tweaked Missionary

The basic missionary position which is man on top of woman can prove difficult when you’re dealing with a large belly or two, but by tweaking the position ever so slightly, the fat population can still manage to enjoy the intimacy and ease of the most commonly practiced position. Rather than the male lying on top of the female, he can kneel or rest between her legs as he penetrates her. This offers easy thrusting and the pleasure of watching your mate’s expression of ecstasy which is always hot!

Doggie Style

This has got to be the one of the greatest sex positions for fat people—and all people alike for that matter! While it may not give you the same intimacy that comes from a face to face position; it goes a long way in pleasure for both parties. Men are visual creatures by nature which makes this position especially exciting thanks to the view he gets from behind; watching each delicious, slippery slide! And for the woman; the benefit comes from this positions ability to stimulate the front wall of the vagina which ups the chances of a g-spot orgasm. Being on all fours also makes it easier for her to stimulate the clit while being penetrated. A winning combination for sure!

Fetal Position Fun

Having her lie on her side in sort-of a fetal like position while he kneels in behind her buttocks offers a very comfortable way to penetrate. Using a couple of pillows to prop up the hips to a more convenient level is one way of tweaking to your satisfaction. He can also hold her top leg up as he thrusts which may not only prove more pleasurable for both, but also gives a little something to grasp on to for more thrusting power.

Ride Him Cowgirl!

By engaging on a woman-on-top position; his or her size makes no difference at all. By being on top, a woman is able to position herself comfortably for penetration and control the depth and speed. He then gets to sit back and relax and enjoy the feeling of his partner doing the work while he gets to watch every delicious moan escape her lips as she rides him. This is by far one of the most popular sex positions for fat people—with good reason.

Finally, I feel it necessary to touch on oral sex positions for fat people, because lets’ face it; sex just isn’t sex without some hot foreplay! In terms of oral sex, there aren’t really too many positions to choose from in the first place. You got your basic going down on him or her and then the overrated ‘69’. The 69 can prove difficult when you’ve got high weights to consider or belly’s that fall where they interfere, so I wouldn’t even waste my time on this one!  

Going Down On Her

You’ve got two options when it comes to going down on her and the one you choose should be entirely based on her comfort level because she won’t be able to enjoy receiving if she isn’t feeling just right. She can lie on her back while he get his face in between her thighs and uses his hands to manipulate things so that he can get the best possible angle, or if she’s comfortable with it, there is the option of sitting on his face. Of course; you never actually sit on someone’s face in order to avoid smothering them to death regardless of your size; you simply straddle the face and lower yourself only as much as needed to do the deed!

Blowing His Mind

Going down on a guy is simple no matter his size—especially as most will take a BJ any way they can get it! He could stand while she kneels in front of him (using one hand to hold up the belly if need be) or he could stand while she lays on her back with her head dangling off the edge of the bed wit her mouth open to him. Also, he could lie on his back while she rests in between his legs and works her magic, again, using her free hands to manipulate the fat anyway needed to make things easier and more pleasurable.

With so many super-sexy options for the super-sized; who says that fat sex isn’t hot?? Take what you’ve been given, own it and work it to the best of your ability and enjoy the world’s oldest and dearest pastime! Sex is a healthy and exciting part of life that should be enjoyed and cherish regardless of size. While we may wish we were supermodel thin; the reality is that people come in all shapes and sizes and the sooner you begin to learn to accept and love yourself, the sooner you can begin enjoying sex as it should be: uninhibited, easy and fun.