Pisces is the twelfth and last sign of the Zodiac calendar. Born in between 19th February and 20th March, Pisceans are sensitive, sympathetic and highly imaginative. Here are a few insights on what it may be like to date a Pisces woman.
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Women of this sign make for immensely fulfilling emotional relationships. They are not only in touch with their own inner selves but are also extremely sensitive to the emotional needs and moods of their partners. So the best way to impress a Pisces woman would be to appeal to her emotional side like by writing her a love letter which genuinely expresses your feelings for her or giving her a present such as a book of Shakespeare’s Love Sonnets. For a first date, you could take her out to a rom-com like Sleepless in Seattle while later on, you could treat her to a special screening of old classics like An Affair to Remember. At the same time, don’t forget the exact date when you first took her out and preferably what she wore and what you had for dinner. A Piscean woman could take your forgetfulness as an indication of your disinterestedness or even a cavalier attitude to love. However, if you are careful to appeal to her emotional side, you will find that your Pisces date is one of the few women who will not only notice the extra effort you have put in to make her feel special but will warmly thank you for it.
Compassionate to the core, a Pisces makes a very supportive friend or lover. Once your girlfriend connects with you, she can be depended on to offer you love and understanding in times of personal grief or crises – unlike the detached Aquarians or the cool Librans, a Pisces girlfriend will not shy away from emotional involvements. This is also why you need to be equally supportive of her feelings when she shares her own thoughts with you. So if Aunt Millie’s wayward husband has been bothering your girlfriend, don’t be dismissive and wave off the problem as concerning neither of you. Your girlfriend’s compassionate and emotional nature does not allow her to shake away the concerns so easily and here you job is to listen and offer support.
Pisces are introspective in nature and some of them may even seem introverts at first. This is because they like keeping many of their own qualities under wraps and reveal them only at the right time and to the right people. So don’t be disconcerted if your Pisces partner appears rather cautious and reserved on the first date. These fish, as indicated by the symbol of the Pair of Fishes, swim in deep waters and are concerned with the inner processes of the self. All these traits make Pisces highly spiritual in nature and immensely imaginative in mind. In fact according to some experts, the zodiac is associated with the intuitive self as well as a world of dreams and secrets.
With a psychic bent of mind, Pisceans are inexorably attracted to mystery. While courting, you can thrill your Pisces girlfriend by adopting the persona of a mysterious admirer or a strange, hooded character. Also throw in lots of “secret” dates, mystery meetings and tantalizing surprises in the form of gifts. Her sense of imagination loves to roam into the unknown and so if you wish to retain her interest in the relationship, spice it up by adding loads of mystery and suspense.
Keeping in with the mutable quality of the zodiac, Pisces are highly adaptable people. They have fluid natures which can go with the flow or adjust to changing conditions and personalities. This quality makes for an extremely agreeable companion and you are likely to find your Pisces girlfriend equally so. For a guy who has got the worst of the unrelenting nature of a Scorpio or a Taurus woman, the cool adaptability of a Piscean can make a most refreshing change.
However the selflessness of a Piscean has a flip side. Very often their compassionate natures are taken advantage of by unscrupulous characters. You may notice your Pisces girlfriend have a soft heart for down-at-luck cousins, starving painters or penniless poets. While she may be drawn to help them because of her innate charitable self, the conveniently-unfortunate guys may want something more materially substantial than a shoulder to cry on. You can do your bit to keep these hangers-on away but for that you are going to need loads of tact and patience.
The downside of an extremely emotional nature is that Pisceans tend to get very upset if things are not going their way. You may find your girlfriend highly sensitive to any less-than-favorable opinion on her experiments with glazed pottery or Spanish paella. They are unable to withstand criticism or negativism from others and when too upset, may even seek refuge in their own world of imagination. Such souls are also prone to bouts of depression and may need to withdraw in order to wash away their blues. However their innate tendency to help others as well as their fluid nature ensure that eventually they return to the surface with their loving, placid self intact.
Pisceans are highly creative people and more often than not can be found to succeed in the worlds of art, music, theater and literature. So if you are keen to hold on to your Piscean girlfriend, brush up your knowledge of the artistic and creative pursuits. Likewise a night at the concert or a quiet afternoon stroll at an art gallery can make nice dating venues for your Piscean girlfriend. Unlike a Leo or Capricorn woman, she does not require you to buy a lavish gift for her or take her to a fancy restaurant. Rather your girlfriend will be happiest with sensitive, creative and sincere gestures which express your real emotions for her.
So if you are dating a Pisces woman, you are going to find her an easy-going, imaginative and generous companion. And these are definitely qualities to cherish in a world of increasingly selfish and inflexible relationships.