How to Get Your Aquarius Man Back


The Aquarius man can take awhile to settle down romantically. He is a very social creature and sure to collect lots of friends throughout his lifetime, but committing to romantic relationships is something that he doesn't take to as readily. If you've experienced a rift with your Aquarius man, this could very well be the reason. Or it might be because he is so aloof and distant that you can't tell whether he is interested or not. This Uranus-ruled man can be quite vexing in a relationship, but if you learn to work with his unique traits, rather than against them, the Aquarius man can also make one of the most faithful, loving, and interesting partners. He is intelligent, curious, and he loves people.

Let's talk about some of the ways that you can start winning your Aquarius man back.

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Be mysterious

If you're the type of woman who wears her emotions on her sleeve, the Aquarius man may lose interest. He prefers a challenge. He doesn't want you to tell him every thought that you have. He doesn't want to know every detail behind your intentions. Rather, he wants to puzzle them out for himself. If he appears perplexed by something you've done; good! Let him remain perplexed. That's how you can be assured that he is still interested in you. If you're the type of woman who likes to open up to a person slowly, and leave a few walls up, then you might be a great match for the Aquarius man.

Be a social butterfly

You will have to be a people-person, if you want things to work out with your Aquarius man. The Aquarius man loves to talk to new people and make new friends. He is likely to want to spend every weekend hopping from one social gathering to the next. He highly values friendship, and in fact, he will probably want to base his romantic relationships off of the foundation of a strong friendship, so if you find yourself in the 'friend zone' with this sun sign, that really isn't a bad thing! Value friendship in all its forms, learn how to mingle, and don't cling to him too much at parties. He'll admire you if you make new friends just as easily as he does.

Hone your conversational skills

The Aquarius man is quick-witted and opinionated. He loves to talk about all kinds of different topics. He can be clever and scientific. He may want to talk about everything from humanitarian issues to the latest technology. He'll want to speak his piece, but hear your thoughts as well. He's not one to shout people down or dominate a conversation. This is because he is so analytical and has a strong sense of objectivity. He's a great match for anyone who enjoys friendly debates, or looking at an issue from many different angles.

Don't expect him to shower you with affection

The Aquarius man can be quite detached and dispassionate. Often one the biggest complaint of Aquarius partners is the lack of intimacy in the relationship. For all of their outgoing and social tendencies, Aquarius men tend to put up walls to keep others from getting too close. This practice extends to romantic partners as well. Being with a man who is so aloof and unemotional can be frustrating to many women. But you just have to remind yourself that this is all a part of the Aquarius man's nature. Just because he isn't proclaiming his love, that doesn't mean he doesn't feel it. If you're unsure where you stand with your Aquarius man, just ask. Aquarius men are very honest and sincere. Just don't come across as too desperate for his affection, as Aquarius men enjoy their freedom and don't want to feel as though they're being forced to commit. This brings me to our next point...

Give him space

The Aquarius man is unconventional and rebellious. He will never be one to be pressured into monogamy. If he isn't ready to settle down, then he isn't going to do it. Aquarius men can be very inflexible, and so if he's made up his mind that he isn't ready for something serious, you aren't going to be able to persuade him otherwise. The key is to respect his needs. Let him transition from casual to committed in his own time. Remember that having respect for the romantic needs of someone else is just the right thing to do. I'm sure that's how you'd like to be treated, and so the same consideration should be afforded to your Aquarius man.

Be honest

The Aquarius man is very honest himself, and he expects his partner to treat him with the same sincerity. Furthermore, Aquarius men are highly intuitive. If you lie to him, he will probably sense it. Being so social and enjoying the company of so many different kinds of people, the Aquarius man has a high level of emotional intelligence. He knows how to read people.

Know what you are getting into

Life with an Aquarius man will never be boring. The Aquarius man is very free-thinking and future-oriented. Whatever field he works in, he's likely to be considered a genius in his specialty. There will be times when he is so focused on bettering the world or revolutionizing an industry, that you may come to feel neglected. But his focus on pet projects, experiments, or inventions, doesn't mean that he doesn't care about you. That's just who the Aquarius man is. He may hide himself away for weeks at a time when a burst of creativity hits him. Don't try to pull him out of his innovative flow. Let him be, and you can be sure that your relationship is on solid ground. He's likely to start spending time with you again, once he's finished his conceptual process. Again, it's really about respect. Have respect for his independence. It is very important to him, and when two people are romantically involved, they should have a great deal of respect for the things that are important to each other.

Be understanding and accepting of his fanatical beliefs

It's because the Aquarius man marches to the beat of his own drum, that he can sometimes form opinions that seem extreme or fanatical to others. He is also incredibly idealistic. He is a dreamer, with big ideas of how the world should be. He has an innate sense of fairness. The culmination of all of these traits could lead to him having some outspoken opinions that you'd rather he keep to himself, especially when your parents come over for dinner! But it's best not to try and reign in the Aquarius man. His rebellious and opinionated nature is a part of what makes him who he is. He won't mind if you disagree with him, but don't ask him to keep his beliefs to himself. This will only result in him becoming cranky and malcontent. After all, wouldn't you be upset if he asked you to change something fundamental about yourself?